I still haven't found the person where I felt any chemistry. So I'm trying this again.

Are you fun and intelligent? Do you look better than average (no lying please because I will find out, lol)? Do you like to do or are willing to try different things?

I am looking for mental stimulation and some romantic fun- someone who can talk about a variety of subjects and is open minded. I like to try different things- I can be very silly at times- so I need someone who has a good sense of humor. Until I figure out my new career area, I'm just gonna have fun learning and meeting new people until the right one comes along. I now want to start dating someone with the possibility of it leading to a long term relationship. If things don't work out, that's cool because I'm not clingy or a stalker.

I'm Native American and Black. In the picture below that I took recently I wear about a size 14, so I'm heavy set and 5'8. My face doesn't look much different from my body so my whole package is about the same. I don't have kids but I want some in a couple years and I prefer men who would like some too (just in case things work out y'know?)
I DON'T DRINK OR SMOKE AND WANT SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T DRINK MORE THAN 1-2 TIMES A YEAR AND DOESN'T SMOKE.

Some things I like to do are: golf (not very good yet), play card/board/video games, camp, canoe, white water raft, bike, take long walks, go to the park, attend self help or business seminars, LOVE TO READ, jog, just hang out, attend carnival, fairs, art shows, cedar point (love roller coasters) etc. I'm pretty much open to anything interesting except sporting events or hunting (animal lover).

I am attracted to bigger guys 5'10 and up and 200 lbs or more. Ages 36-49 would be nice. I'm open to any race as long as you have some color. I like a guy who is optimistic, talkative and outgoing- no quiet guys. ***I'm not interested in men who have 2 or more children or who don't want children at all. In short, I eventually want kids and a regular family, whatever that is in this age.*** I don't want to date any guy who comes with a ready made family- I've already tried that and it was too much work especially when I only have 2 cats who are pretty self sufficient.

I'm not interested in married men or pictures of your woody- just real guys looking for something real.

Please tell me all about yourself and don't just say hi and I hate messages that begin with "Hey" or "What's Up." Here are some questions for you if your at a loss for a good introduction...

What do you do in your free time?

What kind of books do you read or listen to?

How would your 2 closest friends describe you?

What are some of your pet peeves or things that piss you off?

How many kids do you have or do you want? Have you been married before?