I am sure other people out there must experience this. My ex and I broke up close to two years ago. We had a very minor set of issues but i dont feel any were critical, however, she had a habit of breaking up with men when things get serious. Despite her insecurities, on the whole, the relationship was good and we clicked on a lot of levels; probably in the 95% range. Of all my girlfriends, she was the only one that I considered marrying. We are on friendly terms and call on each others birthday's and christmas, and perhaps two or three emails in about two years-that is the extent of contact. We are connected on facebook and I saw a comment on my home page about her going on vacation to someplace we went with her new boyfriend. Its kinda fucking with me. I do consider myself as having "moved on" and have a new girlfriend myself. Even though I have a GF now, I do not consider her marriage material for a variety of reasons; the click percentage is much lower (it was the best i could find after 18 months of online dating) and she isn't very good in bed (important to a good marriage). Part of me knows it can probably never be, but another part of me would like to start over fresh with "the one" in the future-or find similar compatibilities with someone all together new. While I know every relationship is and should be different, I find myself wanting in a new partner all the good things that my relationship with her contained, and none of the bad. I dont expect to ever really find a relationship with no bad stuff. I have heard that you have to put into a relationship to make it work, but I also am finding it impossibly difficult to find someone with the same high level of "click" that I felt with the one, which I feel is very important to have before considering a marriage. I dont think you can make or fake the click; either its there or its not. Is it wrong to never marry if you dont find that high level of click or compatibility?