I have tried all the dating services and while i dont consider myself bad looking, i dont consider myself hot either. I have always felt i am an average looking person. My fitness level is WAY above average for my age and I am gainfully employd. But I am finding the dating scene impossibly difficult. The dates I am able to win off dating sites are with seriously messed up girls. Most times, they dont even give reasons for not wanting to date any longer. They just dont even follow up.

Please tell me other guys are having the same problems?